Ms. Slav left for home on Monday, and we spent two weeks seeing each other every other day. She’s bisexual (or, as she says, she prefers “pansexual”) and was also having some sex with the girl she stayed with. The other girl is essentially straight but also inexperienced. She’s not into sex enough for Ms. Slav’s taste, and I would guess from seeing pictures of her that she’s not very competitive. I wish the other girl were hotter, but she is… not.
Ms. Slav is into being my nude model and making sex tapes with me, so that’s a major plus. I think she’ll be into posting them online when we get there. Like most chicks, when she sees nudes of herself taken by someone with a real camera and some small knowledge of photography, she’s properly impressed… to the point that she’s now talking about buying a camera (a good move in my view: if you develop your aesthetic eye even a little, iPhone pics will not satisfy).
Despite that, I still find myself not as excited about her as I should be. F**king her was really fun, don’t get me wrong, and I’m happy to have done it and will do it again, but I can’t get totally into her. Why?
This is embarrassing to admit, but on two separate occasions when I was fucking her, an unwanted thought came to the top of mind: “96% of guys would kill to be in this situation; why aren’t you totally into it?”
Maybe it is the condom thing, I don’t know. Or, it is true that sometimes we just don’t get into a person who is objectively very attractive.
On Saturday I did bring her to a pretty large party. I may function for her the way Libido Girl did for me. She loved the party, despite some hiccups due to some guest-list challenges caused by the organizers, and after we had some (very intense, very good) sex, she wanted to find a girl to hookup with. She wasn’t clear about how to do so in that environment, but I sure was, and practically the first couple I saw had a woman who was ALSO looking for another woman. She was probably in her early 30s but still very hot. They had never been to a full-on event before and had only gone to non-sex events, so they were excited. The other guy and I watched and participated a little bit. They had that mind-blown look that people get at their first orgies. Eventually, Ms. Slav and I had sex again.
The other woman got Ms. Slav’s number. I warned Ms. Slav that, in the clear light of the next day, many people are less interested, but Ms. Slav said, “Girls always text me.” She’s got an arrogant edge, but, as I mentioned, she is very hot. And the next day the other woman did text her, very promptly. They couldn’t meet before Ms. Slav left, but I’m now confident they will again.
Ms. Slav reminds me of something Nash said: very young chicks can get trained quickly by older guys into sexual experience and knowledge (I can’t find the specific posts where he talks about this). Ms. Slav made sexual debut at a very early age, and has continued since then: she is full of life. Although I haven’t heard about her oldest partner yet, I wouldn’t be surprised to find him 30+. Guys mostly have to develop on our own, while many girls get accelerated by older guys.
At the party, I was helped by my reputation and by the fact that I knew many people there. I led, Ms. Slav followed. A very good dynamic.
Ms. Slav also talked to her roommate/host about going to the party, but the roommate expressed a lot of interest, then didn’t go (a much more typical experience with women: interest, but failed execution). Behavior like this, and experience with it, is why a lot of venture capitalists are reluctant to invest in female entrepreneurs. The roommate had a good path to adventure and another, non-judgmental girl to go with, but didn’t bother. The whole path was open! Then the roommate expressed intense regret the next day, because she went to some boring average party and left after an hour. I’m always happy to leave heavy chicks at home.
Ms. Slav is also unusual because she’s extremely punctual and extremely straightforward. When she said, “I want to hook up with a girl,” I found an acceptable girl and she did. She had a great time. Unlike so many chicks, she wasn’t constantly tripping over herself and into failure. As many players know, a girl’s statement that “I’m interested in other girls” is often, if not bullshit, then at least not something she wants to execute. Finding chicks who say, “I want this thing” and then do this thing is too uncommon. I really like it when it does happen, but I don’t expect it to. I wonder how many chicks would have better sexual experiences if they showed up on time and learned how to cook (Ms. Slav also likes to cook and says she’ll cook for me when she gets her apartment set up).
Like Libido Girl, I think Ms. Slav would make an excellent wing-woman for threesomes.
I meant to update the story sooner, but work has been nuts and when I’ve not been working I’ve been dealing with personal stuff, or stuffing Ms. Slav. Now I wish I’d taken closer notes on what she said, because there are other amusing game-related things, but I have been tired and today is the first day I’ve had mental space to talk about Ms. Slav. The media-outrage articles don’t require as much deep thought, because typically they either exemplify an important Red Pill idea or need simple correction that Red Pill and evolutionary biology guys will already know. I would guess that, over time, as I transition away from the game, that will become the bulk of this blog.
(I still don’t know what should replace the game, but I do still feel it should be something.)
By the way, the 20-year-old came to town for a day to look for apartments, but I didn’t see her Snapchat saying as much until after she’d left. That’s just as well: she’s flakey enough that I may stop responding altogether and maybe re-initiate later on. I worry that I’ve been feeding her way too much attention relative to her behavior.
Correction: I know I’ve been feeding her way too much attention. She does reply within minutes of everything I send her, but if the logistics aren’t there I need to ease out till they are. I’m not convinced I’m going to have sex with her again. Her behavior is strange. Must be other dudes in the picture.
I did talk to Ms. Slav about getting an IUD. I want to go all the way, raw, and see if that ups my feelings about her.
4 thoughts on “Ms. Slav story update”
>>96% of guys would kill to be in this situation; why aren’t you totally into it?”
>> Ms. Slav is also unusual because she’s extremely punctual and extremely straightforward.
Is she masculine? Not on the outside, but on the inside??
Girls that are on time out of respect are often very feminine/trad. But this girl sounds so sure of herself… Maybe this is masculine energy?
She could be hot, sexy, etc, but a masculine undercurrent could leave you craving something.
>>Is she masculine? Not on the outside, but on the inside??
That’s a very astute question. The honest answer is, “I’m not sure.” I haven’t spent enough time around her yet. My initial answer is, “No,” but I don’t trust that instinct.
She is probably a little more masculine than the average chick (being on time, not being scared of things, etc.), but she submits well to my leadership so far, both in terms of activities and in bed. She seems pretty evenly balanced between masculine and feminine energy, and when she hooked up with the other chick she did a good job balancing leading and following.
So I don’t know what to say. I think it’s very plausible.
>> something Nash said: very young chicks can get trained quickly by older guys into sexual experience and knowledge (I can’t find the specific posts where he talks about this).
For a minute I thought you must be thinking of someone else, but… Ahhh, yes.
I most talk about this in terms of pickup (my focus) rather than sex (your focus)… But the concept still works.
Grown men, my age (40+), with a life full of experience, approach and try to seduce young girls (I took an 18 yr olds number yesterday).
This is how very young girls end up with lots of practice at “advanced” levels (… And boys their age cannot compete well, as experienced women don’t seduce/educate inexperienced boys with the same frequency).
And it follows that they would also, then, bring young girls an “advanced education” in sex as well.
>>I most talk about this in terms of pickup (my focus) rather than sex (your focus)… But the concept still works.
In both cases it still works… young chicks get older guys picking them up. And, if the chick is down, teaching them how to have sex. Ms. Slav has already been taught, or learned on her own. I doubt many 19-year-old guys can handle her.
I’m tweaking her psychology a bit, to make her mental view of herself sex positive. And she is being introduced to other people who have made that mental switch. When a chick like her gets networked into a bunch of other people who like being sex positive and sexually explorative, interesting things happen.