I’m having a Twitter chat with @tddaygame:
Don’t fall for a girl half your age.
Realize it’s only about sex and act accordingly.
Good advice. I see these “Red Pill” guys saying, “Who would EVER pick the older chick over the younger one?” But it depends on what the guy is looking for. If the age gap is too wide, a deeper or longer relationship won’t work. If I’m looking for a longer-term relationship, and I might be (I can’t fully tell… and uncommon position to find myself in), the youngest I can consider is probably 27 or 28. A 24-year-old girl is just not developed enough for me. Her likely trajectory is another two to four year relationship, breakup, then she finds a longer-term prospect. She is great for sex and I can nudge her development as a person, but as a long-term partner? No.
People on-line tend to exaggerate. When they hear “older chick” they think 50+. But as @GeorgeBruno shows, the answer also depends on how old and how experienced you are.
I think most 40+ guys couldn’t stand a 18 yo girl for longer than it takes them to cum.
I definitely can stand (and am right now, in fact) an 18-year-old girl, but a) Ms. Slav is very unusual and b) I’m not under any illusions about this being a long-term thing. I enjoy her company. She is more mature than a lot of mid-20s girls I’ve met. Even though she is different in many ways, I am not delusional enough to think we will be together over the long term. We won’t be. She also too into the non-monogamy and group thing for me to consider her for a longer or deeper relationship. She has gone “all in” as I have not truly seen before. By default, the chicks I’ve brought into the scene have clung to me, for the most part, and needed my encouragement to go forth. Ms. Slav is likely to become one of the central players in the scene over time. I have a longer piece on this I should write but haven’t yet.
I’m also pretty directive, especially with younger chicks, so I’m very able to say, “We’re going to do this… follow or don’t.” Most young chicks won’t follow. That’s okay with me. Some will. I’m also peculiar in that I have a small number of very deep interests and no interest in most things. I don’t want to go to pop concerts. I don’t want to do some other things that most 18 – 24-year-old girls love. There are some things I love doing and if I can get the chick to go with me, then great, and if not, then we can just do sex.
Bike Girl was good at being malleable to the things I want to do. But she is also not 18.
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I date multiple girls who are less than half my age. It took a while to find those that have more than a morsel of compatibility with me, an elderly intellectual, but it’s worth the effort for the energy and vivacity, not to mention the horniness, that they effuse. Of course, they will spasmodically drop out of my life and move on to other guys, but I’m careful not to burn any bridges when that happens. I view each relationship as a long-term investment, confident that they will probably drop back into rotation when the other guys fuck up. In ten years’ time I will not be able to pull girls like I can today, but if I had a number already invested in me years back, then it’s going to be a lot easier to entice some of them to re-engage rather than my finding ‘fresh meat’.
It’s not my position to give advice, but Ms Slav may well prove to a good long-term prospect for sexual adventure at the very least, even if your relationship becomes on-off, which seems inevitable. Burn no bridges.