Some men are stupid and need the Red Pill

Some men are stupid and need the Red Pill, as you can tell from this girl’s guide to being a cam girl:

You probably know about whales. Whales are the rare, wonderful person who comes along and gives you a significant chunk of your income. Most girls I’ve talked to have about 50-70% of their income coming from 1-3 people. Pleasing a whale is really important once you have them, whether that involves being nice or mean to them I don’t know, but usually it involves giving them a lot of free stuff and offline attention.

This makes no sense, though: if a man wants female interaction, he can just go buy an escort. Why pay for a bunch of pixelated images on a screen, when he can f**k live chicks? This camgirl uses the word “attention,” and men are wasting their attention and their money with chicks they have no shot at f**king.

The girl, however, understands the lives of men in ways most girls do not:

I don’t think women easily empathize with the life of unattractive men. Women get constant messages that you are beautiful and you are desirable – they get social support and easily accessible casual sex, if they ever wanted it.

Men do not live in a world where people are supporting them even when nobody seems to want them. Men are lonelier and have fewer options of healing that loneliness. They also have a greater (initiatory!) sex drive, and are stuck with the social burden of being the one who has to act and pursue, because if they don’t, they will be alone forever.

And so for you to smile at them, laugh at their jokes, be warmly interested in what they have to say, to be willing to bare your body for them and feel pleasure with them – this is something that they crave.

“The social burden of being the one who has to act and pursue” is only a burden for guys who don’t realize it’s also a gift. Most women never learn how to get the guys they want, so they have to choose from the guys who ask them out. Many women are frustrated today because guys are too scared to ask them out while women are inhibited for psychological and evolutionary reasons from doing so.

My overall reading of this post is that there are some really stupid men out there, and they’re online watching camgirls instead of offline practicing their social skills.

I don’t fault camgirls. They’re providing a service for money, like everyone else in a market economy. If guys were less pathetic, there would not be camgirls.

Discretion and the Secret Society

Years ago, a lover learned about a mutual acquittance I’d fucked before her. My then-lover was shocked and wanted to know why I hadn’t told her. My answer: I don’t gossip about sex and respect my lovers’ confidentiality. That kind of answer is terrible to use with most women, because it’s too logical, so I added that I will also respect her confidentiality. I’ll apply the same standards to all my lovers.

I told her to think about what will happen in the future, when she finds a provider guy to have kids with. Does she want me running around, blabbing to whoever, that we had sex?

She weakly argued that she wouldn’t care. I told her that both her and I know that’s not true.

It’s good practice not to tell current lovers the real, full names of past lovers. Let them find out on their own, if at all. If a girl gets mad about your past, promise them discretion in the future. Live that way and you will reduce problems for yourself.

The major exception to this rule is women who are deeply and congruently in the sex party scene. They are typically not as sensitive and will often be open to threesomes and group sex. For normal girls, however, reputation is paramount and guys who can shut the fuck up will help preserve their reputations. Let girls talk about the guys they’ve fucked.

As a guy, you also don’t need to brag about your past conquests to women. Women will be able to tell if you’re sexually experienced just from how you are.