This is another garbage politics essay, so you might as well go read the Ms. Slav saga, which is much more interesting and features a bunch of hot sex too. Plus girl management, which I may be doing somewhat poorly in her case. Also, no one has the attention to read and think about anything in depth, including this missive, which is why politics look like they do. That is not an endorsement of your side, by the way.
A commenter addressed a side note stashed into another post,
“It’s weird and incongruent to be interested in truthfulness and reality while at the same time admiring one of the greatest grifters in U.S. history.”
Thank you for this. One of the things that drives me absolutely nuts about TRP is the insane and completely irrational devotion to conservatism and [well-known political figure] in particular. You’re spot on: it’s 100% incongruent.
TRP, boiled down to its essence, is about the rational application of power and action to improve a man’s life with specific regard to his sex life, understanding the world, not as we’re told or want it to be, but how it actually is in reality.
I wrote a post on the reddit sub the other day I eventually just decided to take down about why guys shouldn’t be so freaked out about feminism and to focus on the signal vs. the noise–as in, how to discern if a woman actually is actually a crazy, man-hating feminist, or if she’s merely someone who nods to the notion but doesn’t actually care. TL;DR–most women, in my experience, don’t actually give a shit, and in fact want alpha Chads with a dominant frame because #evolution.
The reaction I got was no upvotes and guys questioning whether or not I was a woman. I don’t really care–simply trying to contribute, but what I’ve found is that if you go against the orthodoxy in any way, dudes get super defensive.
I’ve been thinking about this and have concluded a couple things, including that a) most people want to divide themselves into tribes and then go whack the other tribe over the head with sticks, and b) politics is one of these areas, like religion or philosophy, where belief is almost totally removed from and segregated from consequences. If you have poor game, or low masculine value, chicks won’t f**k you, and there is a direction linkage between the two. I also think most guys are more apolitical than conservative, but if you post typical us-vs-them political things, people get riled up and have to stick their oar in. Politics is the noisy screaming in the street, with people rushing to see the fight, while thinking happens with the guy sitting in the coffee shop, reading a book and thinking about the book while 100 people stream past him towards the square.
There are some other things going on too…
1. The crazy social-justice-warrior, angry-feminist left is legitimately awful. So guys think, “What is the opposite of that? Let me go do that instead.” No one thinks for themselves. Most people select either|or, instead of looking for third ways, or simply saying, “Neither.” If SJWs are on the left, then I must be on the right, right? Errrrrr… no… but that is how the typical person thinks.
2. Most people want a “system” to follow. Religion used to provide this. Today, religion is mostly dead, and so guys find politics instead. Once a typical person buys into a political party or system, they stay with that system, even when it is bad, or has bad outcomes. It’s useful to think to yourself, “If I didn’t know the source of quote x, and it came from a guy on the other side instead of the guy on my side, what would I think of it?” This goes back to politics as a team sport instead of independent thinkers.
3. TRP and seduction probably selects for guys who have been unsuccessful with or hurt by women. Probably guys with bad childhoods too. Guys who are getting what they want from dating, women, etc. are probably not spending a lot of time debating pickup tactics online or getting super angry about politics they barely affect.
4. It turns out that the core elements of game and pickup, while not exactly “easy,” can be mastered and, once mastered… there is not a gigantic amount to say. Thus lay reports becoming kind of repetitive. Once a guy is getting laid, what else can he talk about… how feminism sucks, or politics? Then that attracts other guys.
5. Certain current U.S. political leaders are doing serious, long-term damage to the American system itself and to the right/Republican party. This is not coming from a leftist or SJW, by the way. That nihilistic trolls might embrace him, makes sense. That anyone who is not a nihilistic troll might, makes no sense, but who said the world had to make sense?
Unfortunately, “The Twitter Takeover of Politics Is Just Getting Started.” The level of political thinking of Red Pill / player guys is barely better than the SJWs and leftists who have become The Great Satan. Everyone is looking to hit the other team on the head with rhetorical sticks, while the other team is looking to hit “us” on the head with sticks. The clearest manifestation of this is the bizarre glee about the grifter who is presently on top of the United States’s Executive Branch.
At the same time, most people’s political knowledge is abysmal. Don’t take my word on this, read The Myth of the Rational Voter instead. In fact if you have not read this book, go read it before you consider commenting on this essay. That you probably won’t, is indicative of the problem.
To quote myself, “Markets are beautiful because they separate the lies people say (meaning, most of what people say) from what people actually want.” Politics have attenuated markets of sort in the form of voting, which is better than nothing, but it’s still pretty crappy. People are very insulated from their decisions. If you make bad game and life decisions you will not f**k hot chicks. Bad political decisions take a long time to propagate (remember that Chavez was initially legitimately elected in Venezuela, for example, and Nixon was legitimately elected in the United States). So people use politics as a signaling mechanism and are rather insulated from most political decisions. The kinds of people who take to Twitter to be SJWs on the left, then get image-matched by people who take to Twitter to be right-wing trolls and agitators on the right.
You may also notice that, in any forum devoted to a topic with good feedback loops, a political discussion descends into idiocy. Game and RP is no different. With game, the feedback loop is short and clear. A guy who improves his game knowledge, sees changes quickly. In politics, the feedback loop isn’t there; a guy who improves his political knowledge… sees nothing change. He may vote a little bit differently but still suffers from the myths of the irrational voters, mentioned above. The historical knowledge isn’t there. Neither is the incentive to improve. The market quality isn’t there. Voters are attenuated from individual decisions, and guys writing online about politics are also attenuated.
You put all these effect together and you get guys spouting “conservative” “Red Pill” slogans. No one can get past their identity to look at the data, to quote myself again. People who can do that, who can think in terms of systems, who can process past events and see how they might be able to apply to the future… those people are rare. People who can parrot back identity-bashing slogans… they are common. Including in the Red Pill.
Most RP/seduction guys have failed at normal dating, are too low status to achieve their desires in normal dating, or are otherwise dissatisfied with what they’re getting. Often, they’ve never learned what women are actually attracted to, or how to be attractive to women. Then they think, “If that is a lie, what else is a lie?” Thus, the spread to politics.
Now that you understand why RP guys can get taken in by marketing grifters and confidence men, can you can vote appropriately, or work on building your business, or go hit on chicks instead of screaming about politics online.
Today, the real question is about how the liberal west is going to respond to the rise of China. Neither the grifter in the White House nor Britain obsessed with Brexit is even thinking about, let alone dealing with, this issue. We squabble, they work. Think about that.
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100% agree about the SJW/Feminist Left. It’s FUCKING scary. They don’t eve follow their own heuristics–that skin color, sex, etc. shouldn’t dictate what we think of someone. MLK anyone? I thought we should care about character?
And I say this as a guy who’s pretty liberal in terms of social norms/economics. It’s ultimately one of the reasons I was able to swallow the pill–because I saw what was going on and I was like… wait one fucking second–this is some bullshit. Men and women are most certainly not the same, and anyone saying so is at best, a hopeful fool–but probably a moron or has an agenda.
The craziest thing I don’t understand is this: why do women listen to other women talk about relationships when the author is a huge fat person? Like, that can’t possibly speak to your (pretty, skinny girl) experience, right? So WTF do you sit there reading shit like that. I probably just need to get off Medium.
Sorry–scattered comment, but taking care of some shit. Enjoy the posts!
>>The craziest thing I don’t understand is this: why do women listen to other women talk about relationships when the author is a huge fat person?
For the most part, I don’t think they do. This is pretty unusual. So yeah, get off Medium.
But most people have no idea what’s going on. And they don’t read any books, so they never really learn. Most people just listen to whoever is closest or most convenient to them, who appears sufficiently cool/high status: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/aubn8u/statuscoolness_first_then_evangelize_for_whatever. Usually that’s not the fat chick. In sex/dating most people just default to the convenient image match. https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2019/01/28/sonny-arvado-and-pancake-mouse-on-the-image-match-and-reciprocity.
Most RP/seduction guys have failed at normal dating, are too low status, or are dissatisfied with what they’re getting. Often, they’ve never learned what women are actually attracted to, or how to be attractive to women. Then they think, “If that is a lie, what else is a lie?” Thus the spread to politics.
“Most RP/seduction guys have failed at normal dating, are too low status, or are dissatisfied with what they’re getting. Often, they’ve never learned what women are actually attracted to, or how to be attractive to women. Then they think, “If that is a lie, what else is a lie?” Thus the spread to politics.”
Wow, that’s the money quote, right there.
You nailed it. You take away the basics from TRP as a sub then it just becomes a thing you do. I killed my trp alt for this reason. I said something along the lines that hating women and banging them also will destroy your soul. Talk about heresy to the dogma. It never felt like the sub was ready to add some humanity back into women and game.
For fashion as an older man looking at 40 in a few weeks- my goal is to not look like a dad. Everyone knows that look. Well fitting is really all you need. It sucks shopping for clothes for my height and build, 29×30 is not a common size by any means. Follow the basics and fit well.
Changing gears- I’m waiting for some blood tests to come back. Pretty sure I finally got bit by the hsv2 bug. Its basically inevitable for the player. Was careful to wrap up actual insertion- I’m thinking it happened during grinding foreplay. I’m somewhat anxious yet also ambivalent for the results. I’d be interested in how the player can move forward with the herp if you have any experience here. I don’t think it’s the end of my life yet it shall present another challenge.