Over the past six months, I haven’t had much enthusiasm, time, or energy for game. Around the end of 2021, my carefully managed ENM relationship nearly blew up, because of a girl who’s been in my life (we’ll call her “long distance boyfriend girl”), for many years. I met her through someone in the same … Continue reading “Xbtusd game updates: many leads from many girls”
Default_friend predicts “The coming wave of sex negativity“, which is another way of saying, “Women will try to lower the ‘market price’ of sex by reducing supply”, and xbtusd has some thoughts about how that interacts with the “sex positivity” movement, to the extent it really exists, and most of this post is his: There’s … Continue reading “Xbtusd on the “price” of sex, and how guys pay it”
XBTUSD is back: his last post describes his first sex party, and he’s written three other posts too. Almost every male and female in a modern dating context is doing some form of a dance: women want an escalator relationship towards marriage, and men want to avoid committing for a long as possible. Men enjoy … Continue reading “XBTUSD’s take on “the talk” a woman gives when she wants to advance the relationship”
A continuation of XBTUSD’s previous post, “Setting the non-monogamous frame and intention with women.” My first (planned) group sex experience was a sex party that was relatively easy to get into, and relatively easy to find (the attendees were not that hot: which may not be a coincidence). It’s possible to find sex parties with … Continue reading “What XBTUSD’s first sex party was like”
XBTUSD has another essay about his adventures in non-monogamy. “Congruence” is the most important attribute when entering the world of group sex or sex parties: as mentioned in previous posts, my brand with women is honesty and direct communication. Even when I’m telling them what they don’t want to hear, (i.e. “I don’t want to … Continue reading “Setting the non-monogamous frame and intention with women: XBTUSD”
XBTUSD has a follow-up post, which will make sense in the context of his earlier post. TRQ asked about my first experience with non monogamy where I was with a girl who was not my partner. I started to move into ethical non-monogamy (ENM) by changing the structure of the “dating” phase of relationships. Where … Continue reading “XBTUSD on his first non-monogamy experiences”
Reader and regular commenter XBTUSD sent this essay on his experiences with non-monogamy and related topics. I’ve been exploring the non-monogamous world for around seven years and have had a myriad of experiences pretty different than TRQ’s, and I hope sharing them might be valuable to his audience: I really respect the community he’s built … Continue reading “XBTUSD on his non-monogamy experiences”
A hot girl, “Heather,” moves in nearby: I chat with her because she’s hot (obviously), and I believe in fire & maneuver, or the practice of continually being in the game… a theme consistent with A lot of guys are pussies, but that means opportunity for the few who aren’t. People who succeed usually succeed … Continue reading “The most powerful “privilege” is hot girl privilege, which is everywhere”
Xbtusd is back, with a fresh report on what women who date women can teach us. I have a bunch of friends who are lesbians—like, real lesbians, not the ones you see on Pornhub. It’s fascinating to hear about their sex lives and how they navigate the sexual landscape. However, things get really interesting when … Continue reading “What Happens When Women Date Women”
When I’m planning and executing initial dates with a girl, I have a repeatable structure or arc that usually goes like this: date one, we meet at a bar, have a drink or two. If the girl seems particularly “on,” I might suggest drink two or three at my place. More often, I’ll suggest we … Continue reading “Date structure and arc: how to plan and execute dates”
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