Good Looking Loser is dead; long live GLL. Why Reddit only works for newbies

Good Looking Loser reappeared, for the first time since 2016, with a 3,500-word post, “The Most Important Good Looking Loser Concepts to Get Your Sex Life Right.” It’s a rehash of the rest of the site, but that’s fine, because the site is more or less “complete.” It can be read like a book. There is garbage on that site (supplements, “bath mate,” anything involving the word “gorilla” or “Cernovich,” who is a clown attempting to lead a sad army), but if you ignore the garbage and focus on getting laid, you’ll do all right. If you really want to “max out,” your looks, that is.

It’s a site most targeted at underperforming guys in their teens and 20s. It’s less useful for the 40+ crowd, where guys should still work on their looks but are realistically not going to be as cut as 23-year-old guys.

Chris also never goes “all the way.” He says he’s getting married (I hope he has a hell of a prenup). He rarely, maybe never, goes beyond conventional 1:1 dating and into sex clubs. Maybe he’s not into that kind of thing. To me it’s a pre-selected venue for highly-sexed women.

GLL is also annoying because Chris is trying to push bogus supplements. I think he should just get a real, honest job, rather than trying to con guys with supplements, etc. So I am not endorsing everything on his blog by any means.

(This blog will eventually die too, or decline into theoretical rants. I’m not as driven by sex as I was in my teens, twenties, or early thirties. I don’t have as much to say about it beyond what I’ve already said, and other guys, like Krauser and Tom Torero, have far better step-by-step material than me.)

I tried submitting “The Most Important Good Looking Loser Concepts to Get Your Sex Life Right” to the seduction page of Reddit, and I got the following message from “ThrowawayPUA”

GLL is banned from seddit for a variety of good reasons.
Don’t join them.

If you’ve wandered over here from Reddit, you now know why Reddit is filled with newbie material. There’s nothing wrong with newbie material (almost all of us have been there), but the intermediate/advanced material is all on blogs or in books. Think about a person who would willingly moderate Reddit… then think about how Reddit works via voting, regardless of the person voting… now you understand. Beginner guys and anger phase guys cannot comprehend the challenges and problems faced by intermediate or advanced guys. That is fine, that is the nature of being a beginner in almost any field, but it also cauterizes the intermediate/advanced discussion.

While I’m writing this, the top post on seduction is “A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you…” No link because it’s typical stupid girl stuff, a mix of things that are kind of true some of the time and things that are downright wrong, and it has 600 upvotes. Meanwhile, the last the couple deep, complex posts from Nash got like four upvotes. Posts from random, incorrect chicks and posts from guys who are like, “I learned how to just be myself and talk to chicks” jump to the top of Reddit because they cater to the 70% of guys on the bottom.

If you’re spending time on Reddit, you’re among the sheep who lead the other sheep. There is some utility, but to learn something beyond “just be confident,” go somewhere else. Newbies often lack the capacity to understand what good advice is. Think back to school and the stupid, noisy person in class trying to one-up the teacher or professor. That person doesn’t know what they don’t know.

Author: The Red Quest

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6 thoughts on “Good Looking Loser is dead; long live GLL. Why Reddit only works for newbies”

  1. I stopped posting on TheRedPill subreddit long ago. I had hoped it would provide some value beyond The Rational Male, but it didn’t. That book tells you all you need to know.

    Sadly, there’s no forum out there that really fits the exact topics I want to talk about with the level of intelligence I want to talk about them with. I’m in a Telegram group right now that’s pretty decent, but not perfect. I think the top guys are segmenting off into their own private chat groups and not really sharing their thoughts with the masses anymore.

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  2. Reddit is worthless all around as an entire website. The problem – I find – is that everyone on Reddit knows everything about everything, and no matter what you say you are wrong. Period.

    I once answered a question about literally my profession, and had some guy tell me everything I said was wrong. When questioned, he didn’t even work in the field! Just an interested observer. He ended up getting me banned from that subreddit and that’s when I realized that pretty much everyone there is garbage.

    In places like TRP and “Seddit” they get way to spergy with game. And that’s coming from a guy who, when he first got into game, literally kept a spreadsheet with openers, hooks, routines, gambits, and closes and how much each worked when, where, and on what type of girl.

    There was a post on RVF where a guy copy+pasted a thing from over there and at one point the reddit post says to look a girl in her left eye. The point the author was making, I think, is that you need to make eye contact, and you can really only look at one eye at a time. I pointed out that most of the people on the sub would probably end up arguing the merits of left eye vs right eye contact, missing the forest for the trees.

    That being said, I do like to occasionally browse r/seduction and see if anything there can challenge my beliefs or change how I approach certain problems. You can sometimes find little nuggets. r/trp is just toxic. I avoid it at all costs. Everyone there is just angry and bitter, not good for your soul.

    RVF is a good place for some solid game discussion, but you need to lurk a long time because they will ban you in a second, and these days there’s no coming back from a ban.

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    1. I don’t think Reddit is totally worthless. For the average guy, Red Pill and Seduction are improvements on the average guy’s life. If the average guy starts lifting, quits sugar, quits video games, goes out more often socially, learns to dress well, and at least attempts to start talking to chicks via cold approach… he is going to get far better results. Reddit can get guys to be above average. It is better than the typical guy.

      But Reddit has very little material for moving from beginner to advanced beginner or intermediate. Guys who move past the beginner stages will not find what they seek there, as most guys never move past that stage and, even if they do, they will become bored by the relentless beginner posts, questions, etc.

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